Seeking Arrangement Reviews

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I won't talk a ton of smack about the site itself because I met a promoter of SA in person, which is how I heard about the site, and found him to be a very nice person. I met said promoter while walking down the street in Manhattan one night with a friend around 11PM, he recruited us off the street basically to boost the numbers of pretty females in attendance.

I have ZERO beef with the site SA itself, it's user friendly and free and the pictures are nice quality.

What I have beef with is the people who use AND ABUSE the website. SA (and I'm not gonna put the blame all on them) doesn't actually screen and verify the guys who sign up to be sugar daddies, so for all a girl knows, they can be broke.

I have heard every horror story imaginable, from a girl being beaten up and having her face disfigured, to a girl traveling hundreds of miles only to be stood up, to fake checks, to fake cash bills etc. The site is a NIGHTMARE from the female's perspective. Broke misogynists looking to prey on weak financially desperate females will love this site, but I wouldn't wish it on MY WORST ENEMY.

While still a bit naive about the fact it's essentially softened prostitution, I met a guy in NYC right after joining the site. He promised me the world then immediately pressured me to consummate the arrangement without providing any proof or incentive I wasn't gonna be screwed over. I wouldn't screw him and he went absolutely berserk sending me countless threatening text messages etc. He was one of MANY horrible guys I tried, in vain, to give a chance. A million first date meet and greets, and countless hours of wasted time later (some free food and cocktails wares off as a novelty eventually) I decided I was sick of meeting crusty old men in public and looking like an actual prostitute, while wasting my time and not getting the alleged benefits.

I met one VERY VERY nice guy, but the rest were horrible sleazebags who basically want a sugarbaby as a bargain friendly version of an escort they can abuse emotionally, financially and even physically. Guys use this site so they can have sex with a variety of girls, possibly give the girl some cash and then never call the girl again.

If you're a girl looking to use this site, first you should be very comfortable with being a hooker. Don't think you are anything better than a whore just because you aren't walking a street corner in Chinatown. Seriously, you might as well join a call girl agency, you will be burned and have your time wasted on SA. You might be violated sexually or physcially if you aren't careful. You will encounter mentally unstable psycho guys.

Second, have your guard way up and protect yourself. Be ready to waste tons of time on first dates that don't pan out as an arrangement, be prepared for sexpectations, and be prepared to have 99% of the sugardaddy SA users say "I don't want to give you a monthly allowance, I wanna pay you each time we meet up, but it might be counterfeit cash, a check that bounces or I might conveniently not have cash at all that day. I want anal sex. I want unprotected sex. I want to pay you per encounter, but due to my hectic schedule, I will probably ditch you last minute, possibly without notice. Oh, by the way, can you pay for a hotel for us because my candy ass is scared my wife will question our next credit card bill....please and thanks! Even though you are broke and that's why you are talking to my old pot-bellied ass? Oh and please have a neat hairstyle and mani/pedi even though you can't afford it"

99% of SA sugardaddies are dishonest scum bags who wanna use you, burn you, have their cake and eat it too. I wouldn't wish this site on my worst enemy. If you find yourself so financially desperate, I would LITERALLY recommend working for a reputable escort agency instead of wasting time on SA. If you think, mentally, that a sugarbaby website helps you not be a "real" whore, think again. It will make you feel like a complete hooker, while degrading you and wasting your energy more than having a true-blue sex for money exchange as an escort.

In summary, I would not recommend Seeking Arrangement to a friend.